MY 99JAMZ SPOTLIGHT for this week: my fave songs that are most likely to be played on 99 Jamz at least 20,000,000 times. And then 100 times more...
If there is one thing that I have learned over the course of June, it is that youth brings about so many life lessons and experiences each and every day that you choose to live fully. Most importantly, without the sugar coating, I've learned that flirting is fun...and that when you're a natural at it, you tend to uncover the truth about how ABSOLUTELY OBSESSED guys are with sex! Now I know, I know, this should not be a surprise. But, jeez. I guess I was sort of giving them the benefit of the doubt. Little did I know, guys will do to the ends of the earth for some Vajayjay. Like...they'd do anything. Or pretty much close to almost anything. We know they'll lie for it, pay for it, fake feelings for it, and even be blatantly forward for it. No shame for a bit of game. And don't get me wrong; I know not all guys are willing to sell their grandma for some action (or the prospect of act); some don't even think that females and their "treasures" are worth digging that deep for. But I can only speak from experience. And from what I've experienced in these past few weeks...i can honestly report that guys are funny when they're desperate for things they have no chance in HELL of getting! hahaha.
The WHAT-IF?? The fact that there is living, breathing, walking (they don't care too much for the talking), vag out there means that there is a reason to roll up out of bed and take a shower everyday. That is motivation enough, and apparently the lonely kittens need persistant dogs to chase them. Guys seems to be intrigued by the "what if" aspect of chasing kitten. It's not that he's thinking "there's no way I'm getting that", or "Can I? Can't I?'. He's already woken up for the day, therefore, he's believing that if you have a pulse and the V, you're a possibility for him to either easily hit, or at least attempt to. You gotta give it to them, guys are optimistic that way. No matter what reality is for the girl, he has his own universe that tells him "Nah bruh! Your good dude! High five! You got this man. How could she say no to you dude?" Considering there's no emotional investment, i could see how easy it would be to pursue, and pursue, and pursue, with your sargent general down their pointing out your course full speed ahead, and not feel a thing if she says no...or yes. I mean, there's other girls just begging to be harassed right? Sadly, that's right! Are girls that EASY? Truth moment? Yes. Not all girls are that easy. Some girls, in fact, are not easy at all. Some are so airtight and locked up that Open Sesame, a key and bail couldn't release anything they have to offer. But unfortunately, some just are that easy to score. And its those girls, who give those guys, hope. And if not hope, free access when the one he doesn't feel like working for starts to affect his oh so fragile ego. And the nerve of it all? He'll still do one chick, as she falls for him, and still adamently attempt to chase the tail of the girl who just won't give in as easily as the others. When he gets what he wants, he always gets more. Is it fair? No. But luckily, the smart ones avoid the melodrama. The Double-Standard Are girls not allowed to be obsessed with sex? And does that make her a loose girl if she is? Seriously. Ask yourself that question. Now if she's obsessed with sex but never has had any is she a tease? If she's obsessed and has had much, at her own bidding and discretion, is she a slut? What if A guy did these things? Are these roles even examined in depth when a guy is behind it all? These, I feel, are important questions to ask. Conclusion? Maybe I'm going absolutely nowhere with this whole discussion on the obsession with sex. But I guess my main question is: why on earth are guys so committed to getting some? Like...you would think It's a full time occupation. Granted, girls have needs to. Thats shouldn't be underestimated. But i guess when it comes to which gender has more self control, it shouldn't be a question that men have built this reputation in the media of being the reckless and careless ones when it comes to doing whatever it takes to get some...from almost anyone. Is it wrong to play on their desires? Or is giving in 10x more wrong then playing with their physical greed? Maybe there's no reason to in depthly question something that is meant to truly be as simple as elementary m I really don't know how to describe what has come over this lady. I mean, she has made many many many mistakes before. And i mean many. Hell, half of her mistakes attended my graduation. But this mistake, the one she's marinating in right now, this is just...painfully disasterous to watch. This man is a manipulator, and frankly one of the ugliest human beings I have ever seen in my life. Take that how you want to; I would be doing you a disservice if I lied. But most importantly, brother is CUH-RAY-ZEE! I really feel as if his obsession and instability is grounds for a straight jacket and oprah re-runs. I don't know man. I hate to dabble in the topic of "what is love, what isn't love" again (Lord knows) because frankly all of this love talk makes me want to puke. But if this is what has a beautiful woman who has lived nearly half her life making some of the most God awful decisions I have ever been a witness to, then we need a call to action to rid this world (and all naive middle-aged women) of this dreadful hex. All things start out innocently enough with conversation. It's never thought that simple friendship could result in a full blown relationship. Very few know that a relationship can lead to the slow demise of everything you are and once stood for. Ask the people on Snapped, First 48, Murder and Mystery, Sins and Secrets, Law and Order, the 6 o'clock news, etc. I mean, is there a class you can take to identify if the person you find romantic interest in is secretly a serial killer? Do you put that on your driver's license? And I give this woman mucho credito: first an abuser, then a cheater, now a fatal attraction type serial killer? That is skill. Three strikes swinging in the dating game, and now you need to sit your ass down. He is over here literally every day. He visits in sun, rain, sleet, hail, snow and tornado. And at first it was cute...until it wasn't. This man, this poor lost puppy, is here all the time, then calls the minute he leaves. And God forbid she doesn't answer her cell...because then he'll blow up the house phone; and it aint even our house! I only do that when I'm out in the hot sun at school, waiting for someone to come and pick my ass up in 10 minutes or less...not when I'm trying to talk to someone on the phone about absoulutely nothing at all. Are you that bored with your existence? That's not love or like! That's obsession! Epsecially when you aint gettin' any!!! Then dude throws hissy fits over everything. I swear it's like his panties are forever in a bind. Let me tell you something, relationships thrive on the quality, not the quantity, of contact. So despite the fact that he's blowing up her cell phone, house phone, driveway, window pane, job location and toilet bowl with all his conversation, if he's throwing bitch fits all the time, then it's just not worth it. I won't delve any farther into this, because the popo might blame me for knowing ahead of time that this man was a cook, but I will say that men who are ridiculously attached to women are just not attractive. Miss me, sure. Want to spend time with me, okay. Think about me often, cool. But fucking calling me before you stick the key in the ignition to drive off and away from my damn driveway!? Hells no! That's not okay! Don't ever invite yourself to be in someone's face and up in their space. If they want you there, they'll let you know... The worst part is when a female begins to fall prey to the delusions of the guy she is (with/not with/with...whatever the hell they are). It's never okay to stop thinking for yourself. But hey, sometimes it takes repeated failure to finally be able to find some sort of success... |
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